Single kids dating
The parent/child bond is very important, and the fact that they wish to have quality time with their kid is a bonus.
It must be nice to share these experiences with the one other person who contributed in making your child. Even if I have a village of wonderful people to help me, I am the only person that can be the I invest everything in my child and, at the end of the day, I’ve run out of gas. I have to get a babysitter and schedule how long I can be out and when I need to return. But do you know how happy I am when I get that alone time with you? To me, it’s like a romantic getaway, a mini-vacation.
I believe a man that accepts his girlfriend as a mother will learn to adjust himself to that lifestyle. Sometimes when you say, “I am tired.” I want to scream- “YOU’RE TIRED? I’m still catching up on two years worth of lost sleep! You should be allowed to have bad days, and as a girlfriend, I should hold them to the same regard as my bad days.
I have to remind myself not to use double standards.
Never make the person you are seeing feel like they have to choose between you and their child, because if they’re worth anything, you will always come second. If you are a more rigid personality type, then dating someone who has children may not be for you.
I mean …do you want to be with someone who puts you before their child? In order to successfully have a romantic relationship with a parent, you must be more adaptable and agreeable than most. There have been times when I have wanted to see the one who I was dating, but duty called.