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The experience can be extremely rewarding—exciting, stimulating and fun.
And the interactive nature of online chatting/sex adds a level of uncertainty and unpredictability that can be exhilarating for people who crave such stimulation (see why people cheat).
Moreover, most people dismiss their online activities as NOT being real—it is like a sexual fantasy, it doesn’t have much consequence—because one can walk away from it or turn it off—unlike a traditional affair where there has been physical contact and a person who actually exists in one’s social network.
Simply put, many people don’t consider online chatting/sex to be cheating.
It bothered me because I didn’t really know, but I got over it and let it go.
I’ve spent more and more time here for the past 6 months, since we’ve got engaged, so I’ve used his computer a lot more as well.
I was messing around one day and found a ton of pornography on it.
I told him I felt bad that he was looking at the pictures; obviously I’m not what he was looking at.We’d still see each other every weekend, sometimes more.Initially we had web cams, I got rid of mine, he still had his and just put it away a couple months ago (5).I had always wondered why he kept it set up right next to his computer when we didn’t use it anymore with each other.He had a roommate and I just figured he used it to take pics of himself for the computer.