Dating a sensitive man
One of the many things we do as women is give a guy an out when we ask to see him as a defense mechanism for our self esteem.For example I'll tell a guy, "I'll text you later and see where you're at, but if you're too tired or not down to hang out I totally get it." First off, we should be confident enough to not have to give ourselves an out, but if we do it's no big deal, we are human.Be there for him and in return he is going to treat you the same.His attention is all on you so be sure that yours is all on him.I am queen of playing too hard to get and I recently experienced that it doesn't work well with sensitive guys.I asked my most sensitive guy friends how they would feel in two different scenarios with their partner; A: the partner being hard to get, and B: their partner being more vulnerable and open.He'll think you are saying, "I'm too tired, or I'm not down to hang out".Sensitive guys like to switch everything around because they aren't secure in where they stand with you.
Try not to get too awkward and quiet after, for some people with a fear of intimacy this can be difficult, but having a sensitive guy in your bed can help you work through that fear.
They want to feel reassured you are okay and that you enjoyed what just went down.
Most men are going to be clear if they want to stay and cuddle or if they are ready to end the night.
Instead, make him feel like he is the only man in the room and give him that encouragement that he needs.
Let him know that you find him sexy and intriguing.